Your level of endurance of people’s characters defines your social comfortability.
Until you’re comfortable with yourself , you won’t be comfortable with others.
And this goes way down to proper management of your true personalities.
The better you feel about yourself, the more comfortable you become with others.
Know yourself and relate with people according to your own level of comfortability.
May Allah assist us in living our lives at a reasonable level of comfortability (aameen).