1. Use your Fitnah (beauty and overtures of allurement) to win the heart of your husband. All women have the ornaments that Allah blessed them with. Use the beauty Allah has bestowed you with to win the heart of your husband. Dress up for your husband at home.
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2. Be sensitive to his moods, feelings and needs. For example, dont start complaining or burden him with problems as soon as he comes home; rather, welcome him and make him feel good to be home.
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3. Review the characteristics of the Hoor Al-Ayn (women of jannah), and try to imitate them. The Qur’an and Sunnah describe the women in jannah with certain characteristics. Such as the silk they wear, their large dark eyes, their singing to their husband, etc.
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4. Do things together or at least allocate some time of the day to give him your undivided attention. Be sincere in appreciating him, show interest in his day, his activities, his thoughts and opinions.
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5. Joke and play with your husband. A mans secret: they seek women who are light-hearted and have a sense of humour.
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6. Be grateful to your husband. Remind yourself that its a tough world out there and your husband works very hard to provide for you.
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7. Dont fly into a rage when you have a difference of opinion or he criticizes you. Stay calm, control your tongue and dont challenge your husbands authority at that time.
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8. Always seek to please your husband, for he is your key to jannah.
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9. Listen and Obey! Obeying your husband is fard (obligatory). Remember that your husband is the head of the family.
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10. Make (du’a) prayer to Allah (SWT) to make your marriage and relationship successful. All good things are from Allah. Never forget to ask Allah (SWT) for the blessing of having a successful marriage that begins in this dunya and continues on – by the Mercy of Allah ﻰﻟﺎﻌﺗ ﻭ ﻪﻧﺎﺤﺒﺳ into jannah.
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May Allah (SWT) grant us successful marriages…Amin.
